Yes! You need to get curious and talk to the client and the vaginal tissues and see what is going on with them. If you get a strong NO then you need to stop and not do it. See what your intuition is telling you and see what the client seems to sense. You may be able to “negotiate” with the tissues if they are willing. There’s so much more here than just the physical structures. Working with the energetics of it all really helps you get better results and avoid retraumatizing an already traumatized area.
What do you do if you aren’t invited in by the tissues? Do you just say maybe today isn’t a good day?
Yes! You need to get curious and talk to the client and the vaginal tissues and see what is going on with them. If you get a strong NO then you need to stop and not do it. See what your intuition is telling you and see what the client seems to sense. You may be able to “negotiate” with the tissues if they are willing. There’s so much more here than just the physical structures. Working with the energetics of it all really helps you get better results and avoid retraumatizing an already traumatized area.